Contemplating Moving On? Here’s 3 reasons why you should

Cindy Sunshine
5 min readMar 22, 2021

Are you sensing some red flags flashing with this boy you’re with? He seems decent.

It seems like he loves me but I’m feeling all kinds of red flags. Nothing will destroy our relationship but I doubt myself if he is the one to truly make me “happy”. Is he the right guy? Should I settle? Here is a guideline I am asking myself and you should to.

  1. He likes you, but he is not in love with you. He is not your best friend.

He says he misses you, he likes you and he wants you by his side all the time. He loves spending time with you but you find yourself accommodating his schedule opposed to yours.

“You have dinner plans on Thursday? Cancel them! So you can hang out me.”

Little by little, I realize that my friends are disappearing one by one. For this one man, who could possibly not be the one for me.

He is not the man I turn to and neither was I the person he comes to.

He is not there when I need him.

My boyfriend was tested positive three weeks ago and we finally got to each other after a few weeks. The topic of houses came up and he happened to casually mention that his rental property was trashed, completely destroyed and vandalized because the tenants were growing marijuana…

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Cindy Sunshine

I’m in love with the idea of LOVE, and does it really exist.